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Meet Irina,

My name is Irina Gubenko and I am committed to LOVE.

I am a Transformational Love, Intimacy & Conscious Sexuality Coach, Feminine Embodiment Teacher, Speaker, Holistic Aromatherapist, Founder of Fragrant Wellness and La Femme Rose Conscious Women Network

Whether you are looking to relieve suffering, have joy in your relationships, rekindle sexual desire with your partner, or to improve overall satisfaction in your daily life, my holistic approach can help you cultivate and sustain the change you are seeking. I specialize in helping individuals and couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, healing or recovering from affairs (emotional & physical), intimacy, keeping relationships, or recurring unhealthy relationships patterns.

I dedicate my life to empowering people to step into their full potential, to let go of limiting beliefs, to open their heart to self-discovery in order to experience greater joy, fulfillment, and harmony in their relationships. I invite people to expand their view of self and others, to understand their own needs and desires, and to overcome fears, traumas, and past hurts that prevent them from moving forward in life. I guide my clients through self-inquiry process to question beliefs that were deeply engraved in the past or toxic patterns that block them from surrendering to the beauty of life and possibility of what can be. These are beliefs about the nature of our emotions, relationships, gender, sexuality and life in general.

My clients are men, women, and couples of all sexual orientations and relationship dynamics. I believe that we are all multidimensional beings with a unique ability to express ourselves on physical, emotional, and spiritual levels.

Is it really possible to use one modality to peel all the layers that we accumulated throughout life, traumas, familial and cultural conditioning, and painful memories that have been stored in our subconscious since childhood? I do not believe so.

My coaching approach is individualized to meet each client’s unique identity. I implement both spiritual modalities and therapeutic models such as talk therapy, non-judgmental self-inquiry, aromatherapy, conscious sexuality practices, personal development tools, and mindful breathing techniques.

Why I do what I do… Here is a glimpse into my personal journey.

My whole life changed in an instant when I discovered that God and universe are in my heart. My personal inner growth took it even deeper and taught me that everything is infused with Divinity. Everything. I have dedicated my life to serving Love. I believe that Love is the true nature of all beings and all things and all of us want the freedom to love and to be loved. I am committed to bringing LOVE to this planet and I believe that it all start in our own hearts.

I have traveled the world, learning, and sharing the ancient wisdom of aromatherapy, self-discovery, and personal growth with others. I developed an online course Fragrance of Self Discovery and Aromas of Love & Intimacy audio series, presented self-care techniques to doctors, wellness practitioners, corporate America, public education teachers and social emotional counselors that work with disadvantaged families, facilitated empowering women circles and feminine immersion retreats, GROOVE movement classes, and conducted workshops at wellness retreats across the United States.

Curious how I went from a frustrated teacher to a
liberated woman?

When you look at me, you may think that I have always been highly self-confidant and free in my soul. This is in fact very far from truth.

Rewind 20 years back. I was doing what I thought I should: living in New York City (which I love by the way), worked as a Public School teacher. Although I always loved being around children for their uncensored love and purity, I hated the rigid system that I was working for. Deep in my heart, I knew I was destined for more…

I got married very young and divorced when my daughter was 3 years old. I put myself back on the “market” and was dating guys (mostly emotionally unavailable), each time hoping that the new one was “the one” and he would rescue me from my suffering. I was frustrated with myself, constantly making an effort to earn love and affection, trying to hide my insecurities from the world.

And then my entire life fell apart in one year. I lost my beloved grandma, the only soul in a world who unconditionally loved me and accepted me for who I was, my dog passed away two months after, my dad was diagnosed with cancer, I injured myself badly, and was forced to leave my job due to extremely toxic work environment. Why was all of this happening at once, I kept asking the universe. Well, I had to hit this rock bottom so that I could actually wake up and realize tat I needed to change something at the very core.

And in this moment everything changed. I took charge of my life and tuned into my heart’s calling. I ended up in a NAHA certification program (National Association of Holistic Aromatherapists), completed trainings with renowned personal growth experts, became a spiritual student at the Brahma Kumaris meditation center, trained with The World GROOVE Movement to become a certified GROOVE (mind, body, soul dance) instructor, and eventually, signed up for tantric training and sacred feminine courses that turned my life around completely. I started my own La Femme Rose conscious women network, facilitating women circles, taking on speaking engagements on self-care and aromatherapy, and teaching classes on conscious love and sexuality.

I have done a ton of emotional healing on myself (even though I never thought I needed any) through aromatherapy and personal work. I opened up to forgiveness, having more fulfilling relationships with friends and men in my life, which I never thought was possible. I am convinced that my personal journey led me to step fully into my power as a woman and unlocked my full potential that I needed to start living fully, manifesting the life of my dreams.

Fast forward 10 years. I am currently enrolled in a Marriage and Family Therapy Master’s licensing program and I am radiantly grateful. I live in full integrity with what I know to be true in my heart. I embrace my life for all there is, without judging it as good or bad, without trying to arrange all my thoughts and emotions into tidy little “boxes” of my ego, and without expecting anything from others.

I pledge my life to serving Truth and my path is clear. I have no doubts or hesitation about my purpose in life and because of that I know one thing for sure:

You can have the life you desire and step into your full human power by accepting and loving yourself first. Self-inquiry and shift in life perspectives are the gateway to your highest potential, you can be loved and honored for who you are, you can be filled with joy and ecstasy and your radiance because it is exactly the medicine that the world needs right now. And I would love to show you HOW….

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